I would love to help you. Sadly any advice I could offer would be plagued by my strange way of thinking.
But eh, I will try, what I do is assign arbitrary values to certain things, for example human connection is 5 (i am pulling stuff out of the air here) and lying is -3 (I must also note that this would require some thinking in the way what is important to you and how much, and in what way)
The just add up all the numbers of all the things that matter to you, is the value positive it may be an ok relationship, if it is negative it may be not.
Again thats my way of doing this based purely on my spicy brain and inability to properly process emotions
I would love to help you. Sadly any advice I could offer would be plagued by my strange way of thinking.
But eh, I will try, what I do is assign arbitrary values to certain things, for example human connection is 5 (i am pulling stuff out of the air here) and lying is -3 (I must also note that this would require some thinking in the way what is important to you and how much, and in what way)
The just add up all the numbers of all the things that matter to you, is the value positive it may be an ok relationship, if it is negative it may be not.
Again thats my way of doing this based purely on my spicy brain and inability to properly process emotions